Matt James is speaking out after his breakup from Rachael Kirkconnell .
On The Bachelor 's March 15 finale, viewers watched as Matt ultimately chose the graphic designer, though he decided not to propose. While Matt and Rachael enjoyed a "honeymoon" phase after filming wrapped—the feeling didn't last long. As Matt explained on After the Final Rose , he and Rachael broke up after racially insensitive photos of her surfaced online.
Rachael has since apologized and has vowed to educate herself after the images—showing her attending an antebellum plantation-themed fraternity party—emerged. However, as Matt told host Emmanuel Acho , he believes Rachael needs to do the work on her own rather than together as a couple.
On Tuesday, March 16, Matt appeared on Good Morning America to reflect on seeing Rachael for the first time after their split. "It hit me like a ton of bricks," he told GMA's Michael Strahan . "I felt the weight of everything that I was carrying throughout the season and with what we were dealing with as a country and having to explain that, why I think it's problematic to me and our relationship, which was extremely difficult."
While Matt said he'd been hoping for a future with Rachael, including an engagement and marriage, the revelations of her past changed things. As he explained, "When you find out the things I did, it deters you from that ultimate goal because—like I stated during After the Final Rose—there's just things that you might not understand what it means to be with someone like me."
When asked if he felt like he "missed out" on exploring relationships with other women after learning of Rachael's past, Matt told Michael, "The conversations that have come from everything that's taken place are more important than anything I could've left with. And if that means that I leave under the circumstances that I left with, so be it."
"As the love stories become more diverse the people that tell them should become just as diverse...I'm excited to see the institutional change take place and I'm honored to be a part of it." @mattjames919 talks about the future of @BachelorABC franchise. https://t.co/fSvXNfQioz pic.twitter.com/KDHgnDtlzF
— Good Morning America (@GMA) March 16, 2021
During After the Final Rose, Rachael admitted that—while filming the show—she hadn't been worried about the controversial photos emerging because she didn't understand how hurtful they were at the time. "That's the frustrating part about the position that I'm in," Matt said, "is having to explain not only to Rachael but to the rest of America why things like that are problematic because we don't have that chance to have that ignorance. Think about Breonna Taylor, think aboutTamir Rice, they didn't have that opportunity to have ignorance."
As for where Matt thinks Rachael is on her journey to understanding, he told Michael, "I know that Rachael's a good person and everything she outlined in her apology and her statement, I'm looking forward to seeing her do because I know she's capable of it."
During his time on GMA, Matt also weighed in on
"I'm excited, it's a fresh start and we need more women hosting," Matt said of the hosting change. "It was the right move."